The journey starts

With my eldest daughter starting her first year at Uni this week and my youngest starting year 10, our conversations are often about direction and the future. Where they want to be, what they want to achieve and how they want to steer themselves in the right direction to get to their goals.

Something I often tell them in our discussions about friends or challenges, is to identify what they do not want, and what they do not like. It may seem somewhat negative, but I strongly believe that identifying what you do not like in any situation or in yourself, can help you to focus on what you do want to do.

Establishing your values, and knowing what your opinions are and having the conviction to stand by them. Entering the work force where focus is so centred on profit and performance, it could be challenging finding value in what you do every day. Work can become a soul draining experience to put food on the table.  

I want them to find their purpose, fail and try again, and fail and try again.. until they find their fire, and I want them to find a company to work for who’s values align with theirs. It pains me when people can’t see past their paycheck. You will always have that in any company, people being there just because they have to be. Frustratingly ignorant, complaining but never taking the time to ask the right questions. They don’t take the time to understand the corporate strategy, they don’t take the time to ask how decisions are made, they don’t ask about profit margins, have no idea of the growth strategy and where they fit in. 

I want my girls to question, to be curious and ask those questions. To go seek the value they can bring to any job they enter into after having knowledge of the company they have chosen. Knowing their purpose and knowing how they fit into the much bigger puzzle of adding value and service. I want them to work hard and be forward thinking. And most of all, I want them to be kind. Life will have many challenges and hard conversations. You don’t have to be an ass to get your way. People…all people, are valuable. 

There are too many people chasing a big paycheck and far too few people finding purpose and fulfillment in what they do. 

My wish for them is to live a life of purpose.

And so .. the first one’s journey begins.

Little Monster Bear

I jumped into my bed to sleep last night
And heard a odd and strange sound
It made my heart jump and gave me a fright
As I saw something in the corner quite round

It was monsteroulsy big and hairy
And with no doubt had very sharp teeth
I’m sure it came closer, it was so scary
So I pulled up my blanket and hid underneath

“Mommy come quick there’s a monster in my room”
“It’s been giving me a fright all night”
So mommy came with a great big broom
And slowly switched on the light

And there in the corner the monster sat
My fuzzy and cute little bear
It had a furry jacket and tiny hat
And didn’t really want to give me a scare!

How to catch a shooting star

I want to catch a shooting star and put it in my purse
I’ll wish for so many things, but not to be a nurse

If I could have one so close by
I’ll wish for wings to make me fly

If only I could go up to the star
Instead of waiting from afar

Maybe I could build a spaceship to fly up high
Or a tower of blocks that could reach up to the sky

I’ll gently take one that shines the brightest
Not too heavy, easy to fit, so the lightest

I’ll wash it and let it sleep in my bed
We’ll whisper secrets that I’ll treasure in my head

I’ll save all my wishes and waste not one
And gently put my star back as soon as I’m done