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Sometimes

We all at times want the smallest things
A treat, a smile, a pull on our heartstrings

A promise, a smile the smallest wish
A hug or warm hand or tiny kiss

A soft whisper, a wink or tender word
Emotions and feelings perfectly mirrored

A piece of twine or even string
a little silly plastic ring

A dog or a cat or a silly hat
To eat and stay skinny and never get fat

To love and be loved and have fun along the way
And sometimes, just sometimes to get our own way

Stop and reflect

Sometimes people forget to see another person’s worth. How much they contribute towards something, their valuable roll in a team, their commitment and general dedication. It really is sad when really amazing people are left without things they deserve or go unnoticed.

I believe we are all destined for something, to play a part somewhere. To make a difference, to add value. We might just not be in control over when that occurs, but what must happen will.

It’s easy to loose track of things, or to feel so overwhelmed by things and worries that we can loose control over our actions or inactions. We all have moments when we see only what is directly in front of us and miss out on the bigger picture. Sometimes it helps to just stop for a moment, reflect and realize that all will be ok.

For those people that might need it today, when one door closes another one opens holding greater opportunities. Whether it’s new job possibilities, new love, better prospects or a more stable future, something better is waiting. Your broken heart will mend, your worries will decrease, your love will rebuild. Just believe it, and take time if you feel broken to heal and be a complete, fulfilled person. xxx

Footsteps forward

The more of it you take, the more of it you leave behind…

A riddle that came up during this mornings fun and games whilst driving my girls to school. The answer of course is footsteps, and this got me thinking. It’s very true, not just in the literal sense of the phrase, but also figuratively.

Every step we take forward removes us from something left behind. Memories good or bad, people,places…and with every new step comes new experiences, new memories, new friends.

No one can possibly walk backwards, living in the past or being trapped by past memories will only keep you standing still, locked in place and unable to move forward. I have received some valuable advise of late and one thing I took to heart was the fact that I can only move forward if I broke free from the constraints I placed upon myself with regards to past events.

My divorce left me with a sense of guilt, lots of anger, an array of mixed emotions and hurt. Someone once told me that the best thing their mom ever did was divorce their father. I will never regret my choices, I regret hurting people but will stand by my choices. Freedom is most definitely found in accepting responsibility.

Through my many discussions about my girls and the effects my divorce would have on them, I have taken all aspects of the advice given to me to heart. Children will only be victims to the degree that the parent plays victim. Through my choice to accept the things I can no longer change and freeing myself from the guilt I felt, I’ll be a more functional parent. I choose to work with emotions of joy and hope, guiding them and empowering them to a greater philosophy of life.

I read today ” your children are a mirror into which you look each day. If you don’t like what you see, change yourself”. After reading this I realized that I wouldn’t change one thing about them! So I must be doing something right

I feel excited taking new footsteps, leaving the old ones behind moving forward into new beginnings and experiences.

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Mothers Day Bliss

Another Mothers Day has come and gone. I’m so blessed to have two amazing girls that I can call my daughters! There are so many days where I reflect on our relationship and I feel privileged to say it’s one filled with respect, love, loyalty and laughter.

Once again they made my day special in every way. My youngest daughter told me after the fact that they had to take money to school for the gift they where preparing, and she saved her tuck shop money to pay for it instead of asking me for money. So cute, she was so excited when I fetched her from school on Friday and could not wait until Sunday to give me my surprise.

I woke up late on Sunday, spoiled with coffee in bed by my love and hugs and wishes from the girls. There is nothing quite as special as warm cuddles filled with extra bits of love and appreciation. After our late start I went to give some of my own hugs and kisses to my mom and shared in a bit of conversation and love. I’m so privileged to still have my mom and realize that I have to cherish the moments and time with her.

After our visit to my mom, we spent some time with my “sister-in-law”, another amazing mommy that is absolutely adored by her daughter, her in Law’s and my love’s dad and his soon to be step mom. Amazing people! I’m so blessed to share in so much love.

Thanks girls! I loved my sweet treats, beautiful artwork, cards and my very yummy smelling bath goodies!! You made mommy’s day so special, love you tons! xxx

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Did you also start humming the tune?